Long ball hitter takes a few but loses most. Nature of the game. It's all about redistribution, but you know that. The 'seller' knows to expect the retest and knows most play short term. Good to hear all is great with family.
Most work the short horizon.......nothing to be found there. Most work markets for some weird kind of self-validation. For most it's the thrill. A losing proposition.
Wishing you well. CO