Re: My other wife...
Thanks DC...we're confident as can be that she will be fine when everything is over with.
My wife's brother in law was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer...poof, gone in 6 months. Never even sought treatment because the odds were so low.
Had a high school friend who died of brain cancer...his sister had already died of cancer...then after he left, the mother died of cancer. He had a brother who I imagine must have been sweating bullets for fear of being hit, too.
Geez...knowing more than 30 folk who were taken out by cancer...that's rough!
Sorry to hear about that.