Oh my gosh Steve...I am so sorry...
My regards to your family...
I am glad to hear your trading is going well...I too had one of the most successful weeks ever...as I had 2 silver puts as well...even though they were wayyyyy out of the money they soon were 'in-the-money' of course...although I did take a big hit with those natgas calls...but looking at the tech's they could be right back at those highs in an instant! It likely was just a 'gift' of a final great buying opp.....they were likely just doing the final 'flush' before the big breakout....
But you take care of your family and take the time nessesary to heal....the markets (and your trading buddies) will still be here when you are ready....
Your family will be in my prayers...
Ron