Well Trades, if I was 30 years younger and had an old lady I didn't like i'd probably take your suggestion to heart, but i'm an old geezer now and me and the old lady have been together for 27 years, been thru good times and bad, and are partners in crime til the bitter end. It might sound kind of cornball and I know I might get razzed for saying so, but i've grown rather fond and attached to her over all these years. One thing I could do is take her on a vacation up there and show her around, I know she'd love the place as much as I do, but we'd have to arrange for somebody to watch all the our animals. We have 2 dogs, 3 cats, 11 chickens, 3 goats and 2 llamas and finding somebody to take care of the all those critters might be a chore.