Re: life can throw you curve balls...
My wife had breast cancer surgery in December and again in January. Because of the china virus I was not allowed in the recovery room. I sat in my car from 2pm until 9pm. The doctor called about 5pm and said the surgery went good. I knew it wasn't a good sign when I didn't get call for me to came back in. I couldn't get any info. At about 9:30pm my wife called me from her room to let me know there was complications. They said I could see her in the morning.
Longest day of my life.
Then she/we went through it again 3 weeks later.